Unitarian Funeral Songs
About Unitarian Funeral Songs Funeral Songs
Unitarian Universalist funeral songs reflect a tradition that honours individual belief over prescribed doctrine — meaning UU funeral music can draw from virtually any source: hymns, folk songs, classical music, pop, or spoken word. "Spirit of Life" by Carolyn McDade is the closest thing UU has to a universal hymn — its call to "come unto me" speaks to a yearning for connection that transcends specific theology. "Blue Boat Home" imagines the earth as a vessel carrying all life, resonating with UU environmentalism and interconnectedness. "Amazing Grace" is sung in many UU congregations with modified lyrics (some replace "wretch" with "soul"), honouring the hymn's beauty while aligning with UU values. The UU approach to funerals — often called "memorial services" or "celebrations of life" — emphasises the deceased's unique life, values, and relationships rather than adherence to religious formula. This means the music is genuinely personal: a UU funeral might feature Pete Seeger alongside a Buddhist chant alongside Beethoven alongside a favourite pop song. The Singing the Living Tradition hymnal provides a foundation, but UU services freely supplement with whatever music honours the person being remembered. For many UU families, folk music (Pete Seeger, Woody Guthrie, Joni Mitchell) carries the same spiritual weight that hymns carry in other traditions.
Top Unitarian Funeral Songs Funeral Songs
Amazing Grace
Traditional
This beloved hymn speaks of salvation and the journey from loss to grace, offering profound comfort to those grieving.
Precious Lord, Take My Hand
Mahalia Jackson
Its heartfelt plea for divine guidance through life's darkness resonates deeply with mourners.
When the Saints Go Marching In
Louis Armstrong
Embodies New Orleans jazz funeral tradition - mourning the loss while celebrating the soul's journey to heaven.
Danny Boy
Traditional Irish
The ultimate Irish funeral song. The promise to sleep in peace until the loved one returns is deeply moving.
Hallelujah
Leonard Cohen
Cohen's masterpiece captures the bittersweet nature of life and love, resonating deeply at farewell moments.
Tips for Choosing Unitarian Funeral Songs Funeral Songs
Tip 1. Embrace musical diversity — UU services welcome everything from traditional hymns to folk songs to classical music to contemporary pop. There are no genre restrictions.
Tip 2. "Spirit of Life" is the UU anthem — Carolyn McDade's hymn is sung in virtually every UU congregation and is the most natural UU funeral choice.
Tip 3. Draw from Singing the Living Tradition — The UU hymnal includes traditional hymns (often with inclusive language), folk songs, rounds, and readings with music.
Tip 4. Inclusive language matters — UU communities generally prefer gender-neutral and non-theistic language. Choose songs or versions that reflect this.
Tip 5. Personal meaning over tradition — UU funerals prioritise what was meaningful to the individual. Their favourite folk song is as appropriate as any hymn.
Tip 6. Nature imagery resonates — UU spirituality often centres on the natural world. Songs about rivers, mountains, seasons, and the earth feel deeply appropriate.
Complete List of Unitarian Funeral Songs Funeral Songs
Amazing Grace
Traditional
A timeless hymn of redemption and hope that has comforted mourners for centuries.
Why it's meaningful: This beloved hymn speaks of salvation and the journey from loss to grace, offering profound comfort to those grieving.
Best moment: Often played during the processional or as a closing hymn.
Precious Lord, Take My Hand
Mahalia Jackson
Written by Thomas Dorsey after losing his wife and infant son, this deeply personal hymn has become the quintessential gospel funeral song.
Why it's meaningful: Its heartfelt plea for divine guidance through life's darkness resonates deeply with mourners.
Best moment: Perfect for processional or during reflection moments.
When the Saints Go Marching In
Louis Armstrong
The quintessential New Orleans jazz funeral song, starting somber then exploding into joyful celebration during the second line.
Why it's meaningful: Embodies New Orleans jazz funeral tradition - mourning the loss while celebrating the soul's journey to heaven.
Best moment: Recessional or second line celebration, especially for New Orleans funerals.
Danny Boy
Traditional Irish
Ireland's most beloved song—a parent's farewell to a child going away, perhaps forever.
Why it's meaningful: The ultimate Irish funeral song. The promise to sleep in peace until the loved one returns is deeply moving.
Best moment: During the service or graveside. No Irish funeral is complete without it.
Hallelujah
Leonard Cohen
A haunting meditation on love, loss, and the complexity of human emotion.
Why it's meaningful: Cohen's masterpiece captures the bittersweet nature of life and love, resonating deeply at farewell moments.
Best moment: Perfect for reflection during the service or viewing.
How Great Thou Art
Traditional Hymn
A majestic hymn praising God
Why it's meaningful: Offers hope of reunion in heaven and celebrates faith
Best moment: Powerful as a congregational hymn or solo performance.
Somewhere Over the Rainbow
Israel Kamakawiwoʻole
A gentle ukulele version that transforms the classic into a peaceful farewell.
Why it's meaningful: The Hawaiian rendition brings a sense of peace and the promise of a better place.
Best moment: Creates a serene atmosphere during reflection or exit.
Adagio for Strings
Samuel Barber
One of the most emotionally powerful pieces in classical music.
Why it's meaningful: Expresses grief with such depth that it has become synonymous with mourning and remembrance.
Best moment: Creates a profound atmosphere during the most solemn moments of the service.
Bridge Over Troubled Water
Simon and Garfunkel
A promise of support and comfort through life's troubled waters.
Why it's meaningful: Celebrates those who were sources of strength and refuge for others.
Best moment: Perfect for honoring someone who was always there for others.
The Prayer
Celine Dion & Andrea Bocelli
A beautiful duet prayer for guidance and protection in multiple languages.
Why it's meaningful: Combines English and Italian to create a universal prayer for peace and guidance.
Best moment: Creates a transcendent moment during the service.
Going Up Yonder
Walter Hawkins
This uplifting anthem celebrates the promise of heaven and eternal life, transforming grief into hope.
Why it's meaningful: A staple in Black Protestant funeral traditions, it focuses on the glorious reunion awaiting believers in heaven during homegoing services.
Best moment: Powerful as a recessional or celebration of life moment.
Soon and Very Soon
Andraé Crouch
This triumphant song anticipates the joy of seeing Jesus and being reunited with loved ones in heaven.
Why it's meaningful: Based on Revelation 21:3-4, it speaks of no more crying or dying. Performed at Michael Jackson's memorial service.
Best moment: Celebratory recessional or closing hymn.
I'll Fly Away
Albert Brumley
This song uses the metaphor of a bird freed from prison to describe the soul's joyous release into heaven.
Why it's meaningful: The most recorded gospel song of all time with over 1,000 versions, celebrating joyous liberation death brings to believers.
Best moment: Perfect for New Orleans jazz funerals and celebration of life services.
It Is Well With My Soul
Horatio Spafford
Written as Spafford sailed over the spot where his four daughters drowned, this hymn of faith emerged from unimaginable grief.
Why it's meaningful: Despite devastating loss, Spafford declared 'it is well' - a profound statement of faith that inspires mourners.
Best moment: Powerful testimony of faith during the darkest moments.
One Sweet Day
Mariah Carey & Boyz II Men
A powerful duet about missing someone and looking forward to reunion, expressing all the things left unsaid.
Why it's meaningful: The soaring harmonies and emotional vocals create a cathartic release while offering hope of eventual reunion and expressing unspoken love.
Best moment: Emotional peak moment during service, allows congregants to fully feel their grief.
I Can Only Imagine
MercyMe
Written by lead singer Bart Millard about his father's death, imagining what it will be like to finally see Jesus face to face.
Why it's meaningful: For families of faith, this song processes grief through the lens of eventual reunion in God's presence.
Best moment: Powerful for Christian services, building from quiet contemplation to triumphant hope.
Free Bird
Lynyrd Skynyrd
Southern rock anthem about freedom and living without constraints, featuring one of rock's greatest guitar solos.
Why it's meaningful: For free spirits who refused to be caged, this song celebrates independence and the soul's liberation.
Best moment: Perfect for brothers or men who lived boldly and valued freedom.
Knockin' on Heaven's Door
Bob Dylan
Bob Dylan's folk-rock classic about preparing for death, originally written for the film Pat Garrett and Billy the Kid.
Why it's meaningful: The tired resignation in the lyrics honors those ready to rest after life's long journey.
Best moment: For honoring lives of struggle or those ready to lay down burdens.
Fire and Rain
James Taylor
James Taylor's deeply personal song written about the suicide of a close friend.
Why it's meaningful: Written about the death of a friend, this song captures the specific shock and ongoing pain of unexpected loss.
Best moment: Powerful for sudden losses or honoring those who struggled with mental health.
Landslide
Fleetwood Mac
Stevie Nicks' reflective ballad about aging, change, and the passage of time.
Why it's meaningful: The honest confrontation with time's passage resonates deeply at funerals.
Best moment: Powerful for honoring women and reflecting on life's journey.
A Change Is Gonna Come
Sam Cooke
Sam Cooke's civil rights anthem about hope and perseverance through struggle.
Why it's meaningful: Written shortly before Cooke's death, it carries prophetic weight about change and justice.
Best moment: Powerful for activists, civil rights advocates, or those who persevered through injustice.
Ain't No Mountain High Enough
Marvin Gaye & Tammi Terrell
Motown classic about unwavering devotion and the promise to be there no matter what obstacles arise.
Why it's meaningful: The promise that nothing can keep us apart offers hope that death itself cannot sever the bonds of love.
Best moment: Uplifting choice for celebrating unshakeable devotion and enduring connection.
Will the Circle Be Unbroken
The Carter Family
Classic American folk hymn about family reunion in heaven, with the Carter Family's iconic harmonies.
Why it's meaningful: The promise of reuniting in an unbroken circle offers hope that families separated by death will be together again.
Best moment: Perfect for family patriarchs/matriarchs or emphasizing heavenly reunion.
Georgia on My Mind
Ray Charles
Ray Charles' iconic soul interpretation of the Hoagy Carmichael classic, full of longing for home.
Why it's meaningful: The longing for Georgia represents nostalgia for home and better times, honoring those who cherished their roots.
Best moment: Perfect for Georgia natives or honoring homesick souls.
Let's Stay Together
Al Green
Al Green's silky soul classic about eternal commitment and standing by your love.
Why it's meaningful: The promise to stay together through good and bad times honors marriages that endured all seasons.
Best moment: Perfect for long-term marriages built on commitment and devotion.
Midnight Train to Georgia
Gladys Knight & the Pips
Gladys Knight's soulful story of devotion, following love back home no matter what.
Why it's meaningful: The journey back home represents the soul's return to where it belongs.
Best moment: For Georgia natives or honoring the journey home to rest.
You'll Never Walk Alone
From Carousel (1945)
Powerful anthem of hope and companionship through life's darkest storms.
Why it's meaningful: Reassures mourners they are not alone in their grief journey.
Best moment: Inspiring as a closing hymn or recessional.
Caledonia
Dougie MacLean
Scotland's unofficial national anthem — a song of homesickness where 'home' becomes a metaphor for the afterlife.
Why it's meaningful: For a Scot dying anywhere in the world, the lyric about being called home is the most powerful sentiment available. Death reframed as homecoming.
Best moment: Main tribute moment or recessional. The Dougie MacLean original is tender; the Paolo Nutini cover is soulful.
I Hope You Dance
Lee Ann Womack
A parent giving advice to a child — the 'dance' is a metaphor for engaging with life fully, taking risks, and never becoming bitter.
Why it's meaningful: Functions as a final blessing from the deceased to the living. Alleviates survivor's guilt by saying 'Go live.'
Best moment: Recessional or final moment. Redirects focus from the coffin to the future.
Live Like You Were Dying
Tim McGraw
Inspired by McGraw's own father's cancer diagnosis. A man given a terminal diagnosis decides to live fully in his remaining time.
Why it's meaningful: Celebrates seizing life rather than fearing death. Reframes the funeral as honouring someone who truly lived.
Best moment: Celebration of life services, especially for those who lived boldly or fought illness.
Frequently Asked Questions
What songs are appropriate for a Unitarian Universalist funeral?
Virtually any music is appropriate at a UU funeral — the tradition places no restrictions on genre or content. Common choices include "Spirit of Life" (the UU anthem), "Blue Boat Home," "Amazing Grace" (sometimes with modified lyrics), folk songs (Pete Seeger, Joni Mitchell), nature-themed songs, and the deceased's personal favourites regardless of genre. The UU hymnal "Singing the Living Tradition" provides many options, but UU services freely incorporate music from any source.
Do Unitarian Universalists have funeral hymns?
Yes — the UU hymnal "Singing the Living Tradition" includes hymns specifically for memorial services, including "Spirit of Life," "We Laugh, We Cry," "Blue Boat Home," and "For All That Is Our Life." However, UU hymns differ from traditional Christian hymns in that they tend to use inclusive, non-theistic language and draw from diverse spiritual traditions. Many are set to familiar folk melodies. UU funerals also freely incorporate hymns from other traditions, secular songs, and readings.
What happens at a Unitarian Universalist memorial service?
A UU memorial service is highly personalised. It typically includes an opening welcome and chalice lighting (a UU ritual), 2-4 musical pieces (hymns, songs, or instrumentals), readings from poetry, literature, or scripture from any tradition, personal remembrances and eulogies, a moment of silence or meditation, and a closing blessing. The service focuses on celebrating the individual's life and is led by a UU minister or lay leader. There is no fixed liturgy — each service is crafted for the specific person.